There isn't a single, universally accepted "Golden Rule of Age." The term "Golden Rule" is typically associated with ethical principles, not dating or age appropriateness. However, depending on context, the phrase could refer to several different concepts:
1. The "Half-Your-Age-Plus-Seven" Dating Rule
This informal guideline suggests that an acceptable age difference in a relationship can be calculated by taking half of a person's age, adding seven, and using that number as the minimum acceptable age for a partner. For example, a 28-year-old would date someone no younger than 21 (28/2 + 7). This rule's origin is unclear, but it is mentioned sometimes in relation to France. Note: This is a social guideline, not a legal or moral one.
2. Ethical Considerations of Age in Different Contexts
The concept of a "Golden Rule" in relation to age might also refer to ethical treatment of individuals across different age groups. This encompasses considerations such as:
- Respect for Elders: Treating older people with dignity, empathy, and respect for their experience and wisdom.
- Protecting Children: Ensuring the safety and well-being of children, acknowledging their vulnerability and ensuring their rights are protected.
- Fair Treatment: Providing equitable opportunities and avoiding age discrimination in employment, healthcare, and other areas.
- Intergenerational Solidarity: Promoting understanding and cooperation between people of different age groups, recognizing the value of diverse perspectives and contributions.
This broad sense of a "Golden Rule" concerning age aligns with the common understanding of the Golden Rule as a principle of ethical reciprocity—treating others as you wish to be treated. This is often found expressed across many faiths and cultures.
The provided references discuss various interpretations of the Golden Rule, primarily in the context of ethics and its application in different settings (e.g., business practices, social relationships, gas industry regulations). None establish a specific "Golden Rule of Age."
