Bellussexual is an acespec microlabel describing someone who is interested in certain sexual actions, the aesthetics of sexual relationships, and/or aspects of sexual relationships, but does not experience sexual attraction and does not desire a sexual relationship.
Essentially, a bellussexual individual appreciates the idea or image of sex and relationships but lacks the personal, compelling desire for those activities or relationships for themselves. They might enjoy erotica, appreciate romantic comedies, or find the concept of sexual intimacy interesting without feeling any sexual pull toward specific people.
Here's a breakdown:
- Acespec: Bellussexuality falls under the asexual spectrum (acespec), meaning it is a type of asexuality.
- Interest vs. Attraction: The key distinction is between interest and attraction. A bellussexual person is interested in sex and relationships, but they don't experience sexual attraction (the feeling of wanting to engage in sexual activities with someone).
- No Desire for a Sexual Relationship: They do not want to engage in sexual relationships themselves. The appeal is theoretical or aesthetic, not based on a personal longing for sexual intimacy.
In short, bellussexuality is about appreciating the idea of sex without experiencing sexual attraction or the desire for sexual relationships.
