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Why Won't My Baby Kiss Me?

Published in Baby Behavior 2 mins read

Your baby might not be kissing you for a few reasons, often related to their developmental stage and changing needs.


Here's a breakdown of why your little one may be less inclined to offer kisses:


Possible Reasons for a Lack of Baby Kisses:


Reason Description
Decreased Need As babies grow, they might become more independent and need you less, leading to fewer instances of seeking affection through kisses. This is a normal part of development.
Testing Boundaries Your baby might be testing how you will react. They are learning about cause and effect and might be pushing you away to see if your love and affection remain constant. They are exploring the boundaries of your relationship.
Focus on Other Things Babies are constantly learning and exploring their surroundings. Your baby might be going through a busy stage where their focus is on new skills or discoveries. Asking for kisses may be seen as an interruption to their learning time.


Practical Insights

  • Not a Rejection: It's important not to take it personally. A baby's actions aren't always a reflection of their feelings.
  • Developmental Stage: These reasons are linked to development, so understand their behavior changes as they learn and grow.
  • Varying Affection Styles: Babies express affection differently at different times, you may need to look for other signs of affection.
  • Continue Showing Love: Keep expressing your love and affection so that the baby feels secure and loved.


  • Reference: As explained, this could be because they need you less, because they're testing you to see if you'll be steadfast in your love if they try pushing you away, or simply because they're going through a busy stage in which their focus is elsewhere (and you're just interrupting their learning time with your requests for kisses).01-May-2024


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