The longest a baby will cry, particularly during a normal developmental stage, can be up to five hours a day.
This period of intense crying is often referred to as the Period of PURPLE Crying. PURPLE is an acronym to help parents understand this normal, but often distressing, phase. It's important to note that while five hours is the upper limit, not all babies will cry this much. Understanding the characteristics of PURPLE crying can help parents cope.
Understanding PURPLE Crying
Here's a breakdown of what PURPLE stands for:
- Peak of Crying: Crying increases and peaks around 2 months of age, then decreases.
- Unexpected: Crying can come and go without any apparent reason.
- Resists Soothing: The baby may not stop crying no matter what you try.
- Pain-like Face: The baby may look like they are in pain, even when they are not.
- Long Lasting: Crying can last for hours.
- Evening: Crying often occurs more in the late afternoon and evening.
Why is PURPLE Crying Important to Understand?
Understanding PURPLE crying is crucial for preventing shaken baby syndrome. The intense, inconsolable crying can be incredibly frustrating for parents and caregivers. Knowing that this is a normal phase and having strategies to cope can help prevent dangerous reactions.
Strategies for Coping with a Crying Baby:
- Check basic needs: Ensure the baby isn't hungry, needs a diaper change, or is too hot or cold.
- Try soothing techniques: Swaddling, gentle rocking, white noise, and offering a pacifier can sometimes help.
- Take a break: If you feel overwhelmed, put the baby down in a safe place (like their crib) and take a few minutes to calm down. Ask for help from a partner, family member, or friend.
- Remember it's temporary: PURPLE crying is a phase that will eventually pass.
While up to five hours a day of crying is considered within the range of normal during the period of PURPLE crying, if you are concerned about your baby's crying or suspect they may be sick or in pain, it's essential to consult with a pediatrician. Excessive or unusual crying could be a sign of an underlying medical condition.
