Yes, babies can miss their mom, especially as they develop object permanence.
Understanding When Babies Miss Their Moms
The ability for babies to miss their mothers is linked to developmental milestones, particularly the concept of object permanence. This understanding allows the baby to know that even when their mother is out of sight, she still exists.
| Developmental Stage | Behavior |
|---|---|
| Before 9 Months | Babies may not exhibit clear signs of missing their mother since they do not fully grasp object permanence. |
| 9-12 Months | As babies develop object permanence, they begin to miss their mothers and other familiar people or objects when they are not around. |
| Beyond 12 Months | Separation anxiety may persist, with the baby understanding that the mother will eventually return after a period. This can continue until around age 3. |
Signs of Separation Anxiety
When babies miss their mothers, it often manifests as separation anxiety. This can include:
- Crying when the mother leaves
- Clinging to the mother when she is present
- Showing distress when approached by unfamiliar people
- Difficulty being comforted by others
How to Help a Baby Dealing With Separation Anxiety
Here are some tips for parents navigating separation anxiety:
- Establish a Routine: Predictable routines can help ease anxiety.
- Practice Short Separations: Start with brief periods apart and gradually increase the time.
- Create a Goodbye Ritual: A consistent goodbye routine can provide comfort.
- Provide Comfort Objects: A favorite toy or blanket can offer a sense of security.
- Be Patient and Supportive: Reassure your baby that you will return.
According to research, "Now that your baby has developed object permanence, they may miss anyone (and anything) they have come to recognize fondly. This separation anxiety may continue through age 3, when they can start to understand the concept that you will be back after a set period of time."
