Your baby might get angry or fussy during feeding because they are experiencing discomfort or simply could mean “I'm not ready yet”.
Feeding time should be a calm and enjoyable experience for your baby. However, sometimes babies become agitated, fussy, or even angry when trying to feed. This reaction often stems from underlying discomfort or a need that isn't being met at that specific moment. As highlighted in parenting resources, a baby's fussing during feeding can signal they aren't ready to eat right now.
Potential Reasons for Fussiness During Feeding
Based on observations and expert insights, a common reason for a baby's feeding frustration is physical discomfort that distracts them from the task of eating. This discomfort can manifest in various ways.
Needing to Burp
One significant factor is needing to burp. Air swallowed during feeding or even before can build up, causing pressure and discomfort in their tiny stomachs. Trying to feed when they have trapped wind can make them feel full or uneasy, leading to fussiness and anger.
Needing a Nappy Change
Another common reason for a baby's reluctance or anger during feeding is needing a nappy change. A wet or soiled nappy can cause skin irritation and general discomfort. Just like adults are distracted by discomfort, a baby struggling with an uncomfortable nappy finds it hard to relax and focus on feeding. The reference specifically notes that discomfort, such as needing to fill its nappy (or needs a nappy change), will distract the baby from feeding.
Not Emotionally or Physically Ready
Sometimes, the fussing could mean “I'm not ready yet”. This isn't necessarily about hunger level but could relate to needing a moment to transition, being overstimulated, or simply not being in the right state to focus on feeding right at that instant.
Other Potential Causes (Briefly)
While the primary focus based on the reference is discomfort from gas or a nappy, other factors can also contribute to feeding anger, such as:
- Flow issues (too fast or too slow)
- Teething pain
- Illness
- Reflux
Addressing Feeding Anger
Understanding that discomfort often underlies feeding anger empowers parents to check for basic needs before and during feeding.
- Check for Burps: Try burping your baby before offering the feed, and certainly if they become fussy during feeding.
- Check the Nappy: Ensure your baby has a clean and dry nappy before starting a feeding session. A simple change can make a big difference in their comfort level and willingness to eat.
- Observe Readiness Cues: Pay attention to your baby's signals. Are they showing clear hunger cues, or do they seem agitated from the start? Sometimes waiting a few minutes, offering a cuddle, or changing their environment can help them become ready.
By addressing these potential sources of discomfort, you can help your baby feel more relaxed and make feeding a smoother experience for both of you. You may not realise what he needs to do until after the event!
