Generally, a comfortable and neutral way to hold your hands when standing is to loosely place one hand over the other in front of you, around your belly button area. This position acts as a "point of home" and feels natural for many people.
Here's a breakdown of why this works and some alternative considerations:
- One Hand Loosely Over the Other: Avoid clenching or gripping. Keep your hands relaxed.
- Position: The area around your belly button is a natural resting point. It prevents your hands from swinging awkwardly or being tucked rigidly at your sides.
- The Goal: The main objective is to appear comfortable and confident. If this particular hand position doesn't feel right, experiment with subtle variations.
- Alternatives: While the "one hand over the other" approach is common, you can also:
- Let your arms hang loosely at your sides, with a slight bend in your elbows.
- Lightly clasp your hands behind your back.
- Briefly put your hands in your pockets (but avoid doing this constantly, as it can appear closed off).
Ultimately, the best way to hold your hands is the way that feels most natural and comfortable for you, while also projecting an image of confidence and composure. Consider the context of the situation as well. A more formal setting might require slightly different posture than a casual one.
