In British slang, "chatting someone up" is the equivalent of flirting.
Here's a more detailed explanation:
British Slang for Flirting
| Term | Meaning | Example |
|---|---|---|
| Chat up | To flirt with someone. | "She was chatting me up at the party." |
| Fancy | To find someone attractive. | "He just smiled. I think he fancies you." |
| Ask out | To ask someone on a date. | "If you fancy him too, you could ask him out." |
How to Use these Terms
- "Chatting someone up" is actively engaging with someone in a playful, often romantic way. It implies the use of conversation, perhaps with some humour or charm, to try to attract the other person's attention and interest.
- "Fancying" someone is the initial stage of attraction. It doesn't necessarily mean you are flirting, but it's the feeling of being drawn to them and finding them desirable.
- "Asking someone out" is the next step. It's when you decide to take the attraction to the next level by suggesting a date or some kind of one-on-one interaction.
Practical Insights
- If someone is chatting you up, they're likely interested in you and trying to show it.
- If you fancy someone, you might be motivated to chat them up.
- Asking someone out is a clear way to express your interest after flirting.
Example Scenario
Let's say you meet someone at a pub. They're making eye contact, laughing at your jokes, and finding reasons to touch your arm lightly. You might say: "He's definitely chatting me up." If you're attracted to him, you might then think, "I fancy him, I should ask him out."
