A "velcro child" refers to a baby or young child who is exceptionally clingy, constantly wanting to be held or near their primary caregiver, often the mother. They exhibit a strong desire to be physically close and may become distressed when separated, even for short periods.
Here's a more detailed breakdown:
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Constant Need for Contact: Velcro children crave physical closeness. They want to be held, carried, or in close proximity to their caregiver.
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Separation Anxiety: These children experience significant distress when separated from their preferred caregiver, even briefly. This can manifest as crying, fussing, or clinging.
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Difficulty with Independent Play: Velcro children may have trouble entertaining themselves independently. They often seek their caregiver's attention and involvement in their activities.
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Intense Attachment: This behavior stems from a very strong attachment bond. While attachment is normal and healthy, it's more pronounced in velcro children.
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Typically Infants and Toddlers: The term is most commonly applied to babies and toddlers, as their developmental stage naturally involves a high degree of dependence. However, the behavior can persist to some degree in older children.
In essence, a velcro child is a child whose need for physical closeness and reassurance is particularly strong, leading to a clingy and dependent demeanor.
