Babies often kiss you because they're mimicking displays of affection they've observed, especially from their parents.
This behavior is a sign that your baby is paying attention to how you show love and affection. As Richard Gallagher, PhD, director of the Parenting Institute at the NYU Child Study Center, explains, their "kissing" is an attempt to replicate these actions. It's a form of imitation, demonstrating that they're learning and developing social-emotional skills.
Here's a breakdown of why babies "kiss":
- Imitation: Babies learn by watching and imitating the actions of those around them, particularly their caregivers. If they see you kissing, hugging, or showing affection in other ways, they're likely to try to do the same.
- Affection: Even though a baby's "kiss" might not be the same as an adult's, it's still a way for them to express affection and connection with you.
- Exploration: Babies explore the world through their senses, and that includes tasting and touching. A "kiss" might also be a way for them to explore your face and learn about you.
- Social Development: "Kissing" is a part of a baby's social and emotional development. It's a way for them to interact with others and build relationships.
In essence, when a baby "kisses" you, they are showing you that they love you, that they're paying attention, and that they're learning how to interact with the world.