Kids get attached to dolls because they believe dolls possess a unique essence or life force, according to psychologists.
While the question specifically mentions dolls, the reasons for attachment extend to other inanimate objects that children often become attached to.
Understanding the Attachment
Here's a breakdown of why this attachment happens:
- Belief in Essence: Children often ascribe special qualities to their dolls (or other comfort objects). They don't just see them as toys but as something special and unique. According to a 09-Mar-2007 news report, psychologists suggest children "intuitively believe they possess a unique essence or life force." This "essence" makes the doll more than just an object; it makes it a companion.
- Comfort and Security: Dolls (and similar objects) provide a sense of comfort and security, especially in new or stressful situations. A familiar doll can act as a stand-in for a parent or caregiver, offering emotional support.
- Transitional Object: Dolls can serve as transitional objects, helping children bridge the gap between dependence and independence.
- Emotional Outlet: Children use dolls to express emotions, practice social skills, and work through anxieties. The doll becomes a recipient of their feelings and a partner in their play.
Examples of Attachment
- A child taking their favorite doll everywhere they go, from the park to bedtime.
- A child becoming upset if someone else touches or moves their special doll.
- A child talking to their doll and confiding in it.
Conclusion
Children's attachment to dolls stems from a belief that these objects possess a unique essence or "life force," providing comfort, security, and an emotional outlet. This attachment plays a significant role in their emotional development.
