Good touch and bad touch are important concepts for girls to understand to help them stay safe. Here's a breakdown:
Understanding Touch
Touch is a way people connect, but it's not always the same. There are touches that feel good and safe, and there are touches that feel uncomfortable or unsafe.
Good Touch
A good touch is a touch that feels:
- Caring: It makes you feel loved and supported.
- Safe: You feel comfortable and at ease.
- Respectful: The person respects your body and boundaries.
Examples of Good Touch:
- A hug from a parent or loved one.
- A pat on the back from a teacher.
- High fives with friends.
- Holding hands with a family member.
- A gentle pat on the head.
The key is that good touches feel good and right.
Bad Touch
A bad touch is a touch that feels:
- Uncomfortable: It makes you feel uneasy or confused.
- Hurtful: It may physically hurt or cause emotional pain.
- Disrespectful: The person isn't respecting your body or feelings.
- Secret: The person might tell you to keep the touch a secret.
Examples of Bad Touch:
- Pinching or hitting.
- Touching any private parts (areas covered by a swimsuit).
- Someone touching you in a way that makes you feel scared or uneasy.
- A stranger trying to hug you or kiss you.
- A touch that makes you feel like you should not tell anyone.
Bad touches can include touching your private areas like your chest, between your legs, or bottom.
Key Differences
Here's a table summarizing the differences between good and bad touch:
| Feature | Good Touch | Bad Touch |
|---|---|---|
| Feeling | Caring, Safe, Happy | Uncomfortable, Hurtful, Scary |
| Respect | Respects boundaries | Disrespects boundaries |
| Location | Public areas, usually gentle | Private areas, can be forceful |
| Secrecy | Not kept secret | May be kept secret |
What to do if you experience a Bad Touch
- Say "NO!" Say it loudly and clearly.
- Get Away: Move away from the person as fast as you can.
- Tell Someone: Tell a trusted adult, like your parents, teacher, or a relative. You have a right to talk about it, and they can help you.
Remember, it's never your fault if someone gives you a bad touch.
