Your crush might call you "sister" for a couple of very different reasons, stemming from their feelings towards you.
According to the provided reference, there are two primary interpretations:
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Deep Affection: Some guys use "sister" as a term of endearment when they feel a very strong platonic connection and deep love for you, though not necessarily romantic. They view you as someone incredibly close and important in their life. because thats HOW MUCH THEY LOVE YOU.
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Lack of Romantic Interest: Alternatively, some guys use "sister" to subtly indicate a lack of romantic attraction. It's a way of placing you firmly in the friend zone. Some guys will say it because that is how little they are attracted to you.
To figure out which reason applies in your situation, consider these factors:
- Context: When and how do they use the term "sister"? Is it used in a joking, affectionate way, or does it feel more distancing?
- Their behavior: Do they flirt with you? Do they show other signs of romantic interest? Or do they treat you solely as a platonic friend?
- Their personality: Are they generally affectionate with everyone, or do they reserve that kind of language for people they're particularly close to (platonically or otherwise)?
Ultimately, the only way to know for sure is to talk to your crush directly.
