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What do Boys Give Girls at Dances?

Published in Dance Etiquette 2 mins read

Traditionally, at dances, boys give girls a corsage or nosegay.

In the context of traditional dance etiquette, there's a specific exchange of floral gifts between partners. Based on tradition, the male partner is responsible for presenting a floral arrangement to the female partner.

Traditional Dance Gift Exchange

Here's a breakdown of the typical exchange:

Partner Traditionally Gives Receives From Partner
Male Corsage or Nosegay Boutonnière
Female Boutonnière Corsage or Nosegay

As referenced, traditionally, the male presents a corsage or nosegay to the female as a gift. This floral arrangement is typically worn on the wrist, pinned to the dress, or carried as a small bouquet.

Understanding the Gifts

  • Corsage: A small bunch of flowers worn by a woman, typically pinned to her dress or worn around her wrist on a decorative elastic band.
  • Nosegay: A small posy of flowers, often presented in a tight bunch. While less common today than a wrist corsage or pin-on corsage for modern dances, it remains a traditional option.
  • Boutonnière: A single flower or a small cluster of flowers worn by a man, typically pinned to the lapel of his suit jacket or shirt.

This exchange is a long-standing custom in formal dance events like proms, homecomings, and other school or social dances, symbolizing respect and partnership for the evening.

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