You shouldn't say anything that makes you appear petty, immature, or insensitive, especially regarding past relationships.
It's crucial to avoid certain topics and phrases when talking to your crush to make a good impression. Bringing up negative experiences or displaying bitterness can be a major turn-off.
Here's what you should avoid saying:
- Negative comments about your ex: Talking negatively about your ex shows you might not be over them and could make you seem immature. As the reference video at 0:28 implies, this only shows that you're still bitter about your past relationship and not entirely over your ex. This makes you appear focused on the past and potentially carrying baggage into a new connection.
- Anything that makes you seem insecure: Avoid phrases that communicate a lack of confidence.
- Anything overly sexual or suggestive early on: Focus on getting to know your crush as a person first.
In short, avoid anything that portrays you as negative, immature, or overly focused on past relationships. Projecting confidence and positivity will significantly improve your chances of making a good impression.
