No, it's generally not considered appropriate to share a single afternoon tea meant for one person.
Afternoon tea is typically presented as a multi-tiered arrangement of delicate sandwiches, scones with clotted cream and jam, and a selection of miniature cakes and pastries. It's designed as a complete experience for one person, similar to a full meal.
Here's why sharing isn't ideal:
- Portion sizes: The portions are often carefully curated to provide a satisfying experience for one person. Sharing would likely leave both individuals feeling unsatisfied.
- Presentation: Afternoon tea is presented beautifully, and sharing disrupts the aesthetic and intended portioning of items on each tier.
- Experience: The experience of afternoon tea is often about indulging in a personal treat. Sharing detracts from this individual enjoyment.
- Cost: The price of afternoon tea usually reflects the experience and the amount of food provided for one person. Sharing wouldn't necessarily reduce the cost, and you'd both be getting less.
Alternatives if you're not sure you can finish a full afternoon tea:
- Order a cream tea instead: This usually consists of scones, clotted cream, jam, and tea, a lighter and less expensive option.
- Skip breakfast: If you plan to have afternoon tea, you might want to have a light breakfast or skip it altogether.
- Inquire about smaller portions: Some establishments may offer a smaller afternoon tea option or be willing to accommodate a request for a smaller portion.
- Order two and take leftovers: If you really want the full experience but anticipate leftovers, simply order two and take the uneaten pastries home.
In conclusion, while not strictly forbidden, sharing a single afternoon tea is generally discouraged. It's better to opt for alternatives if you're concerned about the amount of food.
