Generally, you should call an adult female a woman.
Here's a more detailed breakdown:
Calling a female "girl" or "woman" depends primarily on her age and the context of the situation. While "girl" is appropriate for children and young adolescents, using it to refer to an adult woman can be perceived as dismissive, condescending, or even offensive.
Here's why choosing "woman" is often the better option:
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Respect and Maturity: Referring to an adult female as a "woman" acknowledges her maturity, experience, and independence. It shows respect and avoids any implication of inferiority.
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Professionalism: In professional settings, using "woman" is almost always the appropriate choice. It maintains a professional tone and avoids any hint of impropriety. Calling a colleague or client a "girl" can undermine her credibility and expertise.
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Avoiding Objectification: In some cases, using "girl" can contribute to the objectification of women. "Woman" avoids this potential pitfall and reinforces respect for her as an individual.
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Age Matters: Generally, once a female has reached adulthood (typically 18 years of age or older), "woman" is the more suitable term.
When might "girl" potentially be acceptable?
- Very close relationships: In very close relationships (e.g., between close female friends), "girl" might be used affectionately or informally. However, this is highly dependent on the individuals involved and their comfort levels.
- Referring to a "girl's night out," etc.: In very specific contexts referring to a group of females, for instance, planning a "girls' night out." However, consider "women's night out" depending on the age and maturity of all participants.
In summary:
Unless you are absolutely certain that using "girl" is appropriate and welcome in a specific situation, it is almost always safer and more respectful to use "woman" when referring to an adult female. When in doubt, err on the side of caution and opt for "woman."
