When attending a viewing (also known as a wake or visitation) as a male, the key is to dress respectfully and modestly. The goal is to show your condolences and support to the bereaved family.
General Guidelines
According to best practices, the overarching principle is to dress in dark colors with simple, modest, formal, clean clothing.
Specific Recommendations for Men
Here's a breakdown of appropriate attire:
- Suit: A dark suit (black, navy, or charcoal grey) is always a safe and respectful choice.
- Dress Pants and Blazer: If you don't own a suit, dark dress pants paired with a blazer are a good alternative.
- Dress Shirt: Wear a collared dress shirt, preferably in a neutral color like white, light blue, or grey.
- Tie: A tie is recommended, but not always required. Choose a conservative tie in a dark color or subtle pattern.
- Shoes: Wear dress shoes that are clean and polished. Black or brown leather shoes are ideal.
- Socks: Match your socks to your pants or shoes. Dark socks are generally preferred.
- Accessories: Keep accessories minimal. A simple watch is acceptable. Avoid flashy jewelry.
- Grooming: Ensure you are well-groomed. This includes a neat haircut, trimmed facial hair, and clean fingernails.
Important Considerations
- Avoid bright colors or patterns: Stick to dark, muted tones.
- Avoid casual wear: Jeans, t-shirts, sneakers, and shorts are not appropriate.
- Consider the family's wishes: If you know the family has requested a specific dress code (e.g., business casual), be sure to adhere to their request.
- Comfort: While dressing formally is important, ensure you are comfortable in your clothing. You may be standing or sitting for extended periods.
By following these guidelines, you can ensure that you are dressed appropriately and respectfully for the viewing.
