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Are tomboys lesbians?

Published in Gender and Sexuality 1 min read

No, tomboys are not necessarily lesbians.

While there may be an association in some people's minds, being a tomboy (a girl who enjoys activities typically associated with boys) does not determine someone's sexual orientation. According to available information, many tomboys grow up to be lesbians or bisexual women, but there are also many who grow up to be straight women. Additionally, some tomboys may grow up to be gay men. Essentially, a tomboy's interests and behaviors don't dictate their future sexual identity.

Characteristic Description Implication for Sexual Orientation
Tomboyishness Enjoying activities and styles typically associated with boys. Not a determinant of sexual orientation
Sexual Orientation A person's sexual identity in relation to the gender(s) to which they are attracted. Independent of tomboyish traits

In summary, being a tomboy is about interests and behaviors, while being a lesbian (or straight, bisexual, etc.) is about sexual orientation. They are distinct aspects of a person.

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