The key difference between gender identity and gender stability lies in the level of understanding children have about gender. Gender identity is a child's basic awareness of being male or female, while gender stability is the understanding that gender remains consistent over time.
Here's a more detailed breakdown:
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Gender Identity:
- This is the initial stage of gender understanding.
- Children recognize themselves as either a boy or a girl.
- This usually develops around the age of 2 or 3.
- Example: A child might say, "I am a girl" or "I am a boy."
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Gender Stability:
- This is the second stage, building upon gender identity.
- Children understand that gender is consistent over time; a girl will grow up to be a woman, and a boy will grow up to be a man.
- They understand that gender doesn't change simply because of external factors like wearing different clothes or having different hairstyles.
- This typically develops around the age of 4 or 5.
- Example: A child understands that even if a girl cuts her hair short and wears boys' clothes, she is still a girl and will grow into a woman.
In essence, gender identity is knowing what you are, while gender stability is knowing that what you are will remain consistent. Gender stability builds upon gender identity, marking a more sophisticated understanding of gender as a constant attribute.