It's generally not okay to refer to a woman as a girl, particularly in professional or formal settings.
Referring to a woman as a "girl" can be problematic for several reasons:
- Age: "Girl" implies youth and immaturity, which can be demeaning to adult women.
- Professionalism: As stated in the provided reference, "Girl is common for general use among teenagers, but probably shouldn't be used in a professional or more formal context even for them -- ``young woman'' would fit better there."
- Patronizing: It can sound patronizing and undermine a woman's authority or expertise.
- Respect: It can be seen as disrespectful, especially in professional settings.
Instead of "girl," it's better to use more appropriate terms such as:
- Woman
- Young woman (if specifying age is important)
- Ms. or Mrs. (followed by the last name, if appropriate)
- Their name
Using respectful and accurate language is essential for creating a positive and inclusive environment.