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Who Fell in Love With Himself?

Published in Greek Mythology 3 mins read

Narcissus, a figure from Greek mythology, famously fell in love with his own reflection.

The Myth of Narcissus

The story of Narcissus, as recounted by Ovid and Pausanias, details a strikingly handsome young man who rejected numerous advances. His ultimate downfall came when he saw his reflection in a pool of water and became hopelessly enamored with his own image. This obsession ultimately led to his death. Cornell College and World History Encyclopedia both detail this well-known account. The Wikipedia entry also supports this version of the story, highlighting Ovid's account as the most prevalent.

Several other sources, such as The Collector, emphasize the tragic irony of Narcissus's unrequited love – his love for himself, rather than another, resulting in his demise. This tragic love story highlights the dangers of self-obsession and the painful consequences of unreciprocated love.

It's important to note that while the story of Narcissus centers on a literal self-love manifested in a reflection, the term "narcissism" is now often used in a broader psychological context to describe excessive self-admiration and a lack of empathy.

Modern Interpretations

While Narcissus's love for his reflection is the most famous example, the question of falling in love with oneself can also be interpreted more metaphorically. Some may argue that falling in love with an idealized version of oneself, a projection of one's desires and aspirations, is a form of self-love. This is explored in several articles and discussions online, such as the Medium article which reflects on confusing self-love with love for an idealized version of oneself. Discussions on sites like Quora explore the complexities of this feeling and its impact on relationships. Furthermore, the Reddit discussion on Loki's character highlights the metaphorical representation of self-love in fictional contexts.

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