Parents can kiss their babies, but others shouldn't, primarily due to the vulnerability of newborns' underdeveloped immune systems.
The Vulnerability of Newborns
Infants' immune systems are not fully developed, making them highly susceptible to viruses and bacteria. Adults often carry germs that cause minor illness in adults but can be dangerous for babies. These germs can easily be transmitted through saliva, a key component of kissing. Therefore, limiting exposure to germs from outside sources is crucial for protecting a baby's health. [Reference: "However, infants' immune systems aren't fully developed, and they're very susceptible to viruses. People's mouths are teeming with germs that often aren't serious for adults but could be dangerous for young children. Thus, it's best for people outside of a baby's household to keep their lips to themselves."]
Risks of Kissing for Newborns
Several illnesses can be transmitted via saliva, such as:
- Cold sores (Herpes simplex virus): This can cause severe complications in infants, including brain damage. [Reference: "Breelynn was born a healthy baby but was kissed by a person with a ... Since her immune system was not developed, this HSV infection attacked her brain and left her with a severe traumatic brain injury."]
- Respiratory syncytial virus (RSV): A common respiratory virus, RSV can lead to serious lung infections in babies.
- Influenza: The flu can be particularly dangerous for infants.
These are just a few examples; many other viruses and bacteria can be passed through kissing.
Parental Exception
While others should refrain from kissing newborns, parents are generally considered an exception. This is because parents are usually less likely to carry pathogens that the baby hasn't already been exposed to. The bacteria and viruses shared between a parent and baby during this crucial period can actually benefit the developing immune system. [Reference: "But mothers kissing their own baby is very beneficial especially if you're breastfeeding. Your lips actually take in baby's bacteria and signals..."]
Setting Boundaries
It's important for parents to set clear boundaries with visitors regarding contact with their newborns. It's acceptable to politely request that visitors refrain from kissing the baby, focusing on protecting the baby's health. Alternatives like foot kisses or gentle pats on the head can be suggested. [Reference: "If your visitors are tested and vaccinated, you can offer feet kisses and masked snuggles, but be explicit about not wanting people's faces in..."]
Conclusion
Protecting the newborn's immune system is paramount. While parents are often an exception due to established exposure, others should avoid kissing babies to reduce the risk of infections.
