No, shaving the head for an Aqiqah is not compulsory.
While Muslims are encouraged to shave the child's head as part of the Aqiqah ceremony, it's not a mandatory requirement. The act of shaving the head is often followed by donating the weight of the hair in silver to charity, signifying a charitable act and sharing blessings. The focus of the Aqiqah is primarily on giving thanks to Allah for the birth of the child and offering a sacrifice.
The reference states that shaving the head is encouraged, using the word "encouraged," not "required" or "obligatory." This highlights the voluntary nature of this aspect of the Aqiqah. The main tenets of the Aqiqah, namely the sacrifice and celebration of the newborn, remain the core elements, regardless of whether the head is shaved.
Key Aspects of Aqiqah:
- Sacrifice: The primary aspect is the slaughtering of an animal (sheep, goat, cow, or camel) as a sacrifice to God.
- Charity: The meat is then distributed to the poor and needy, sharing the blessings with the community.
- Celebration: It's a time of joy and thanksgiving for the new arrival.
- Shaving the head (Sunnah): While encouraged, this act is considered a Sunnah (recommended practice), not a fard (obligatory act).
Therefore, while shaving the head is a common and commendable practice, parents are not obligated to do so for their child's Aqiqah.