Muslims give newborns dates, often softened and rubbed on the upper palate (a practice known as tahneek), in hopes that attributes of the individual performing the tahneek, often a respected family member, will transfer to the child.
Understanding Tahneek and Its Significance
Tahneek is a cultural practice performed soon after a Muslim baby is born, ideally before the first breastfeeding. A small piece of softened date is rubbed gently on the infant's upper palate.
The Reason Behind Tahneek
The primary reason for this practice is rooted in the belief that qualities of the person performing tahneek will be transferred to the child. Therefore, a pious and respected individual, often a grandparent or religious figure, is chosen to carry out this tradition. This person is expected to possess positive attributes such as wisdom, patience, and devotion, all of which are desired for the newborn.
Dates in Islamic Tradition
Dates hold a significant place in Islamic tradition. The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) is reported to have encouraged the practice of tahneek with dates. This further strengthens the religious and cultural significance of the custom within the Muslim community.
Modern Perspectives
While the traditional belief of transferring attributes remains central, some also consider the potential health benefits of dates. Dates are rich in nutrients and provide a small energy boost to the newborn.
