Preference for kissing styles varies greatly among individuals, regardless of gender. While some men enjoy sloppy, wet kisses with intense tongue action, others prefer gentler, more sensual kisses. There's no single answer to this question.
Factors Influencing Kissing Preferences
Several factors influence a person's preference for kissing styles:
- Personal Preference: Individual tastes differ significantly. Some people enjoy the intensity of a sloppy kiss, while others find it overwhelming.
- Cultural Influences: Societal norms and cultural backgrounds can shape kissing styles and preferences.
- Relationship Dynamics: The level of intimacy and comfort within a relationship can influence the type of kiss shared.
- Biological Factors: Some research suggests a biological component to kissing preferences, possibly linked to hormone levels and instinctive behaviors. As noted by anthropologist Helen Fisher, "Men in general seem to like wet kisses with more 'tongue action'," possibly due to an instinctual attempt to gauge fertility.1
Evidence from Various Sources
Online discussions reveal a diverse range of opinions:
- Some men explicitly state a preference for sloppy kisses, describing them as enjoyable and intensely intimate.2, 3, 4 These individuals view the saliva exchange and intensity as a sign of passion.
- Others express a dislike for excessive saliva or forceful kissing, preferring a gentler, more controlled approach.5, 6, 7 They find sloppy kisses overwhelming or unpleasant.
- Many emphasize the importance of communication and mutual consent, highlighting the need for partners to openly discuss their kissing preferences to ensure a mutually satisfying experience.8, 9, 10
Conclusion
The enjoyment of sloppy kissing is subjective and depends on individual preferences and relationship dynamics. While some men enjoy this style, others do not. Effective communication between partners is key to ensuring a pleasant and mutually enjoyable kissing experience.
1 Helen Fisher quote from an article published Feb 17, 2009.
2 Reddit thread: "Am I the only one loving some sloppy and wet make-out session?"
3 GirlsAskGuys thread: "GUYS DO YOU LIKE SLOPPY KISSES?"
4 Quora thread: "Do you enjoy sensual and soft kisses or sloppy and intense ones..."
5 Reddit thread: "Kissing - am I a freak because I don't like slobbery wet kissing?"
6 Reddit thread: "Why are there so many guys who are such bad kissers?"
7 Reddit thread: "Why do so many men think they have to kiss the shit out of you!?!!"
8 Quora thread: "What does a wet kiss feel like? How do I do a wet kissing with my partner"
9 Reddit thread: "Kissing - do people actually enjoy tasting each other's spit?"
10 Medium article: "Your Kisses Reveal More About You Than You Think, Here's Why..."
