To kiss him harder, focus on increasing the pressure and intensity while maintaining a connection and reading his cues.
Here's a breakdown of techniques you can use:
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Increase the Pressure: Apply more pressure with your lips against his. The key is finding the sweet spot where it's passionate, not painful.
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Hand Placement: Gently cup the back of his head or neck. You can also run your fingers through his hair. This adds to the intensity and intimacy.
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Lip Nibbling: Softly nibble on his lower lip with your teeth. This can be a playful and sensual addition. Remember to be gentle!
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Vary the Kiss: Mix up the intensity. Don't maintain the same level of pressure the entire time. Vary between soft, gentle kisses and harder, more passionate ones. This keeps him engaged.
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Body Language: Lean in closer to him, signaling your desire. Your body language should match the intensity of your kiss.
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Listen to Him: Pay attention to his reactions. Is he reciprocating with the same intensity? Does he pull away slightly? His response will tell you if you're hitting the right notes. Kissing is a two-way street.
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Open Your Mouth Slightly More: Inviting deeper contact can naturally intensify the kiss.
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Breath Control: Don't forget to breathe! Shortness of breath can break the mood.
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Don't Forget Tongue (Optional): If you're both comfortable with it, incorporate some tongue, but do so gradually and sensitively. Too much tongue can be overwhelming.
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Confidence: Confidence is key! Approach the kiss with assurance, and he'll likely respond positively.
Remember, communication is crucial. If you're unsure, you can always playfully ask him what he likes.
