There's no single "correct" lip to kiss. The best approach is to focus on what feels natural and mutually enjoyable.
Kissing: A Matter of Preference and Connection
Several sources indicate that there is no prescribed rule for which lip a man should kiss. Whether it's the upper or lower lip, or both, depends entirely on individual preferences and the dynamics of the kiss itself. (Source 1, Source 2, Source 3). For a quick kiss, both lips are often involved, while more extended kissing might focus on one lip or the other, or alternate between them. (Source 2)
One source even highlights that the experience can be influenced by the shape and size of the lips involved. (Source 3) Ultimately, a kiss is about expressing feelings and connection. (Source 1)
Practical Considerations
- Start slow: Begin with a gentle kiss, and gauge your partner's response.
- Read their cues: Pay attention to their body language and adjust your approach accordingly.
- Experiment: Don't be afraid to try different techniques and see what feels best for both of you.
- Focus on connection: A successful kiss is more about the connection than the specific technique.
