Yes, men notice women's lips. Studies show that thicker lips are considered sexually attractive by both men and women. [^1] This attraction isn't limited to lip size; men notice lips in general, often subconsciously.
Why Men Notice Lips
Several factors contribute to men noticing women's lips:
- Attractiveness: Full lips are often associated with youth and fertility, making them a visually appealing feature. [^1, ^5]
- Nonverbal Communication: Lip movements are a key part of communication and facial expression. Observing lip movements helps in understanding emotions and intentions. [^3]
- Kissing: Lips are central to kissing, a common expression of affection and intimacy. A man looking at a woman's lips might be subconsciously considering the possibility of a kiss. [^3]
- Makeup and Cosmetics: Women often wear lipstick or lip gloss, drawing attention to their lips. This deliberate enhancement increases the likelihood of them being noticed. [^8]
Different Interpretations of "Notice"
It's important to note that "notice" can have varying interpretations:
- Subconscious Notice: Men might subconsciously register a woman's lips as part of her overall appearance without actively focusing on them.
- Conscious Appreciation: In some cases, men might consciously find a woman's lips attractive, leading to direct eye contact and focused observation.
- Contextual Notice: The context of the interaction significantly influences how much attention is paid to lips. For instance, during a conversation, lip movements are more likely to be observed compared to a brief encounter.
While some men might focus on lip fillers or other cosmetic enhancements, [^2] the overall consensus is that men, like women, perceive lips as an important aspect of facial attractiveness and communication. [^1, ^5] The significance of lip noticing ranges from subconscious visual registration to a more conscious and deliberate appreciation.
[^1]: Studies show that thicker lips are considered sexually attractive by men and women9,38. Our study found the same results. There was no difference in the perception of lip attractiveness between men and women (Table 5). This result is also corroborated by Kau et al.18. 21-Mar-2023
[^2]: Reddit discussion on men's opinions of lip fillers: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/18aox1p/what_do_men_actually_think_about_lip_filler/
[^3]: Quora discussion on why men look at lips: https://www.quora.com/Why-do-guys-look-at-girls-lips-when-they-talk
[^5]: Why Do Men Think Women With Bigger Lips Are More Beautiful?: https://hubpages.com/relationships/forum/147262/why-do-men-think-women-with-bigger-lips-are-more-beautiful
[^8]: AskMen article about women noticing if men look at their lips: https://www.askmen.com/all/1864792-women-do-you-notice-if-the-guy-youre-talking-with-.html
