Yes, in Islam, a husband can shave his wife's pubic hair. This is permissible because looking at and touching a spouse's private parts is considered acceptable, whether for pleasure or other reasons. Several Islamic sources support this.
Islamic Sources and Perspectives
Several sources explicitly or implicitly address this issue:
- IslamQA: This website states that it is permissible for a husband and wife to see each other's private parts, although it is considered better to avoid it. https://islamqa.org/hanafi/askimam/18195/can-husband-or-wife-removes-each-others-pubic-hairis-it-haram-for-each-other-to-c-their-private-parts-or-any-gunnahas-u-can-expose-to-dr-in-need-so-y-not-to-husband-and-wife/ This implicitly supports the act of shaving, as it implies permissible touching and viewing.
- IslamWeb: A fatwa from IslamWeb explicitly states: "A spouse can shave pubes of the other since looking and touching the private parts of spouse is permissible whether it is for enjoyment or any other purpose." https://www.islamweb.net/en/fatwa/85591/shaving-hair-from-private-parts-and-from-wifes-also
- General Islamic Practice: Many Islamic sources highlight the removal of pubic hair as a recommended practice for both men and women, further supporting the permissibility within the marital context. This is often cited as part of maintaining cleanliness and hygiene.
Considerations
While permissible, it's important to note that this act should always be done with mutual respect and consent between the husband and wife. Open communication is crucial in a marriage.