The most direct and effective way to tell a guy you're on your period is to simply be straightforward.
Here's a breakdown of approaches and considerations:
Direct and Simple Options:
- "Hey, I just started my period." This is clear, concise, and leaves no room for misinterpretation.
- "I'm on my period." Another straightforward option.
- "It's that time of the month." Most people will understand this euphemism.
Adding Context (Optional):
You might want to add context if you're telling him because it's impacting your plans or how you're feeling:
- "Hey, I just started my period and I'm not feeling great. I was wondering if we could [reschedule our plans/take it easy tonight]."
- "I'm on my period, so I might be a little [emotional/tired/whatever you're feeling]."
- "It's that time of the month, so I need to [take a break/run to the store]."
Considerations:
- Your relationship with the guy: The closer you are, the more comfortable you'll likely feel being direct.
- The reason you're telling him: Are you explaining why you can't do something, or are you just informing him? This will influence your word choice.
- His maturity level: Consider whether he's likely to be understanding and respectful.
What to Avoid:
- Overly graphic descriptions. Keep it simple and to the point.
- Feeling embarrassed or ashamed. Menstruation is a normal biological process.
Ultimately, the best approach is the one that feels most comfortable and natural for you and your relationship. A straightforward, honest approach is generally the most effective.
