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How Do You Control Pelvic Muscles When Ejaculating?

Published in Pelvic Muscle Control 3 mins read

It's important to understand that there is no direct conscious control over the muscles involved during the process of ejaculation itself. However, you can strengthen your pelvic muscles, which may improve control and awareness in this area. The following exercises are designed to strengthen the pelvic floor muscles, which can have an indirect impact on sexual function:

Strengthening Pelvic Floor Muscles

While these exercises don't directly control the ejaculatory process, they can increase awareness and improve strength. These pelvic exercises, like Kegels, can improve overall muscle tone in the area:


Table: Pelvic Muscle Exercises

Exercise Description Hold Time Release Time Repetitions
Penile Muscle Contraction While lying on your back with knees bent, draw your penis towards your body, focusing on only using those muscles. 5 seconds 5 seconds 10-15
Sphincter Squeeze Squeeze your anus as if you are holding in a fart. 5 seconds 5 seconds 10-15


How to Perform the Exercises

  • Position: Lay on your back with your knees bent and feet flat on the floor. This provides a stable base for these exercises, according to the reference.
  • Penile Muscle Contraction:
    • Focus only on your penile muscles.
    • Draw your penis towards your body.
    • Hold this contraction for five seconds.
    • Release slowly.
    • Repeat for 10-15 repetitions.
  • Sphincter Squeeze:
    • Imagine you are trying to prevent passing gas.
    • Squeeze your anus (sphincter).
    • Hold the squeeze for five seconds.
    • Release slowly.
    • Repeat for 10-15 repetitions.


Why These Exercises Matter

  • Improved Muscle Awareness: Regular practice increases your awareness of your pelvic muscles.
  • Enhanced Muscle Strength: Strengthened pelvic floor muscles provide better support for the pelvic organs.
  • Potential for Control: While you can't consciously control ejaculation directly, a stronger pelvic floor may give you more control over the feeling.
  • Overall Sexual Health: Maintaining healthy pelvic muscles contributes to overall sexual well-being.


Important Considerations

  • Consistency is Key: Perform these exercises regularly for the best results.
  • Proper Technique: Focus on the specific muscles to avoid recruiting others.
  • Seek Guidance: If you are unsure or experience any pain, seek guidance from a medical professional or pelvic floor therapist.
  • These exercises won't stop ejaculation, but may improve awareness and control.


The process of ejaculation is complex and involves multiple physiological responses, not just muscle control. These exercises can indirectly improve your awareness and strength in the pelvic region.

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