Giving someone butterflies while kissing is about creating a romantic and intimate atmosphere built on anticipation and connection, not just the physical act itself. It's about the entire experience.
Building Anticipation
Before the kiss, build excitement and anticipation. This is crucial for creating that "butterflies" feeling.
- Subtle Flirting: Engage in lighthearted flirting before the kiss. A playful touch on the arm, a lingering gaze, or a whispered compliment can create the perfect mood.
- Close Proximity: Slowly reduce the physical distance between you. The anticipation of closeness can be incredibly effective.
- Non-Verbal Communication: Your body language speaks volumes. Maintain eye contact, smile gently, and show genuine interest. A slight tilt of the head or a soft caress on the cheek can add to the romantic atmosphere. The YouTube video mentioned using a softer tone of voice ("turn your voice down like one octave... add a girl or that's my girl") might enhance the effect.
During the Kiss
The kiss itself should be gentle, passionate, and tailored to her preferences.
- Slow and Tender: Start slow and gentle. Don't rush into a passionate kiss right away. Let the moment build.
- Vary the Kiss: Alternate between kissing her lips and softly kissing her neck or cheek. This adds variety and excitement. As noted in several sources, touching her face (cheek, neck) while kissing adds another dimension to the experience.
- Read Her Cues: Pay attention to her reactions. If she pulls away, slow down or stop. If she leans in closer, you can increase the intensity.
- Hand Placement: Gently cup her face, run your fingers through her hair, or hold her hand. These small touches add intimacy and enhance the connection. Quora and Reddit threads highlight the importance of hand gestures during kissing, such as caressing her cheek or running fingers through her hair.
After the Kiss
The experience doesn't end with the kiss itself.
- Maintain Eye Contact: After the kiss, hold her gaze for a few moments. A lingering look can convey deeper feelings.
- Continue the Intimacy: Maintain physical closeness, perhaps by holding hands or gently hugging. Continuing the physical connection can prolong the feeling.
By focusing on building anticipation, employing gentle and varied kissing techniques, and maintaining a close connection before, during, and after the kiss, you can significantly increase the chances of giving her those delightful butterflies.
