Generally, it's not a good idea to ask "Did you miss me?".
Here's why:
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Perceived Neediness: According to existing knowledge, asking "I missed you, did you miss me?" can come across as demanding and needy. That's often seen as unattractive.
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Potential for Disappointment: You might not get the answer you're hoping for. If the other person isn't as invested as you are, their response might be disappointing, and it could damage the interaction. As stated "This really isn't a good issue to tackle, because it may not go your way".
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Giving them a reason to back away: If they enjoy your company but haven't really invested in you emotionally yet, you'll give them a reason NOT to.
Instead of directly asking, consider these alternatives:
- Express your feelings without demanding a response: "I really enjoyed spending time with you."
- Suggest a future interaction: "It would be great to catch up again soon."
- Focus on building a connection through shared experiences and interests.
