This question is ambiguous. It could refer to:
- What do you call a girl in terms of her societal role/status before she is married?
- How do you address a girl you are interested in, before you are married to her, particularly when initiating contact?
- What name do you use to refer to or address a girl you are dating but not yet married to?
Let's address each interpretation:
Societal Role/Status Before Marriage
Traditionally, a girl before marriage is simply called a girl, young woman, or depending on age, a young lady. There aren't special formal titles like "Missus" (Mrs.) or "Miss" (though "Miss" generally indicates an unmarried woman).
Initiating Contact and Addressing a Girl
How you address a girl you're interested in before marriage depends on the context and your relationship with her. The references provide some insights into initiating contact:
- Be Approachable: Reference 1 suggests smiling when you talk to her. This creates a positive and welcoming atmosphere.
- Start Simple: Reference 2 recommends a simple "Hi." This is a low-pressure way to begin a conversation.
- Offer a Genuine Compliment: Reference 2 suggests saying, "You have a very nice voice." A genuine compliment can be a good way to show interest without being overly forward.
- Mindset: Reference 3 reminds us to approach the interaction with a loving and positive attitude.
Examples of addressing a girl you're interested in:
- Casual acquaintance: Use her name if you know it. If you don't, a simple "Excuse me" or "Hi" works.
- Someone you've met before: Use her name and a friendly greeting. "Hi [Name], how are you?"
- Someone you're meeting for the first time (e.g., on a dating app): Start with a polite greeting like "Hello" or "Hi [Name]".
Addressing a Girl You Are Dating
If you are in a dating relationship, acceptable terms of address will depend on the level of intimacy and mutual agreement. This might include her first name, nicknames, or terms of endearment.
- Use her name: The simplest and safest option is always to use her first name.
- Consider nicknames: If you have a nickname for her that she likes, you can use that.
- Terms of endearment: These (e.g., "sweetheart," "darling," "honey") should only be used if you have a close relationship and she is comfortable with them.
Important Considerations:
- Respect her preferences: Always respect her wishes regarding how she wants to be addressed. If she dislikes a nickname or term of endearment, stop using it immediately.
- Context matters: The appropriateness of certain terms depends on the situation. For example, a formal setting might call for using her full name or first name, while a private setting might be more conducive to using a term of endearment.