When a child doesn't like to be touched, it can be referred to as tactile defensiveness.
Tactile defensiveness is a condition where an individual has an aversion to or negative reactions to certain textures or types of touch. This can manifest in various ways and can significantly impact a child's daily life. Someone with tactile defensiveness will often be more sensitive to touch compared to others.
Understanding Tactile Defensiveness
Here's a more in-depth look:
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Sensitivity: Children with tactile defensiveness often have skin that is highly sensitive to everyday sensations, such as clothing textures, hair brushing, or even light touch.
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Reactions: They may react negatively to these sensations, experiencing them as unpleasant, irritating, or even painful. They might withdraw from touch, become agitated, or express discomfort verbally or nonverbally.
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Causes: While the exact causes aren't always clear, tactile defensiveness is often associated with sensory processing issues. Autistic children and adults frequently report tactile defensiveness.
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Impact: Tactile defensiveness can affect a child's ability to participate in everyday activities, such as dressing, eating, and playing. It can also impact social interactions, as the child may avoid physical contact with others.
Examples of Tactile Defensiveness
A child with tactile defensiveness might:
- Refuse to wear certain types of clothing (e.g., wool or synthetics).
- Complain about tags in clothing.
- Avoid getting their hands messy (e.g., playing with finger paints or sand).
- Dislike being hugged or touched unexpectedly.
- Become distressed during hair washing or brushing.
- Be sensitive to the textures of certain foods.
Addressing Tactile Defensiveness
If you suspect a child has tactile defensiveness, it's important to seek professional guidance. Occupational therapists can evaluate the child's sensory processing and develop strategies to help them manage their sensitivities. These strategies often involve sensory integration therapy.
