Telling your partner you want oral sex involves open communication and considering the right moment.
Here's how you can approach the conversation, incorporating the provided reference:
- During Intimate Moments: If you and your partner are comfortable with dirty talk, bringing up the subject of oral sex can feel more natural.
- Example: You can mention a fantasy you have about them performing oral sex on you. (Reference: During steamy, hot talks. If you and your partner are the ones to engage in dirty talks, then asking about oral sex can get easier. You can simply slip in the idea of you fantasising about your partner going down on you.)
- Sexting: Use sexting as a way to introduce the topic. This can be a less direct way to gauge their interest.
- Example: Send a text describing how good it would feel.
- During Foreplay: As foreplay progresses, you can subtly express your desires. (Reference: Naturally, talk about it while sexting or even sometimes during foreplay.)
- Example: Gently guide their hand or body.
- Direct Communication: If you prefer a straightforward approach, simply tell your partner what you want. Choose a relaxed and comfortable time to talk openly.
- Example: "I've been thinking about oral sex, and I would really enjoy it if we could explore that."
