Whether or not you should sleep with your girlfriend on her period is ultimately a personal decision for you both. Medically speaking, it's perfectly safe. The choice depends on your and her comfort levels and preferences.
Factors to Consider:
- Her Comfort Level: This is the most important factor. Does she feel comfortable having sex during her period? Has she expressed any concerns or hesitations? Open communication is crucial. Don't assume anything.
- Your Comfort Level: Are you comfortable with the presence of menstrual blood? If you have concerns, it's important to address them openly with your girlfriend.
- Hygiene: Some couples may feel more comfortable taking extra precautions for hygiene, such as showering before or after sex, or using towels to minimize mess.
- Pain Relief: For some women, sex during their period can actually alleviate cramps. For others, it might exacerbate them. Knowing how your girlfriend typically feels during menstruation is helpful.
- Heightened Sensitivity: Some women experience heightened sensitivity during their period, making sex more pleasurable. Others may be more sensitive to pain or discomfort.
- Contraception: While the risk of pregnancy is lower during menstruation, it is not zero. Sperm can survive in the female reproductive tract for up to five days. If you're not trying to conceive, continue to use contraception.
- Alternatives: If either of you is hesitant about penetrative sex, consider other forms of intimacy, such as cuddling, massage, or oral sex.
Pros of Sex During Period:
- Pain Relief: As mentioned, orgasms can release endorphins, which can act as natural painkillers.
- Increased Libido: Some women experience a higher sex drive during their period due to hormonal fluctuations.
- Emotional Intimacy: Being intimate during a time when your partner may be feeling vulnerable can strengthen your emotional bond.
Cons of Sex During Period:
- Messiness: The presence of menstrual blood can be a deterrent for some couples.
- Discomfort: Some women experience increased discomfort or sensitivity during menstruation.
- Stigma: Societal stigma surrounding menstruation can sometimes create feelings of shame or embarrassment.
Communication is Key:
The best way to decide whether or not to have sex during your girlfriend's period is to have an open and honest conversation with her. Ask her how she's feeling, what her preferences are, and address any concerns you may have. Respect her decision, whatever it may be.
