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Why Do I Pee When I Get Excited (Male)?

Published in Sexual Health 3 mins read

Arousal incontinence, or experiencing the urge to urinate or involuntary urination when sexually aroused or excited, is likely due to a temporary disruption of the mechanisms that control urine flow, specifically involving the external urethral sphincter and pelvic floor muscles.

Here's a breakdown of potential contributing factors:

  • Disruption of the External Urethral Sphincter: The external urethral sphincter is a muscle that helps control the release of urine from the bladder. During sexual arousal, various physiological changes occur, potentially affecting the normal function of this sphincter. This can lead to a temporary weakening or relaxation, making it difficult to completely prevent urine leakage.

  • Relaxation or Fatigue of the Pelvic Floor: The pelvic floor muscles support the bladder and urethra. They also play a crucial role in controlling urination. If these muscles are weak or fatigued, they may not be able to provide enough support during arousal, contributing to the urge to urinate or actual leakage.

  • Psychological Factors: Although less directly physiological, psychological factors like anxiety, stress, or past experiences can sometimes contribute to increased sensitivity or reactivity of the bladder during sexual arousal. These psychological components often intertwine with the physiological.

  • Overactive Bladder: Though not solely linked to excitement, an overactive bladder, characterized by frequent and urgent urination, could become more noticeable or pronounced during moments of sexual arousal. If you frequently experience urinary urgency outside of sexual situations, this could be a factor.

What to do?

  • Pelvic Floor Exercises (Kegels): Strengthening your pelvic floor muscles can improve bladder control and support. Regular Kegel exercises can be helpful.
  • Empty Bladder Before: Before engaging in sexual activity, ensure you've emptied your bladder to minimize the chance of leakage.
  • Consult a Doctor: If this is a persistent or distressing issue, it's best to consult a doctor or urologist. They can rule out any underlying medical conditions and suggest appropriate treatment options.

While the specific cause can vary from person to person, it is believed to be primarily linked to the complex interplay between the nervous system, muscles, and hormonal changes that occur during sexual arousal.

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