A spectrasexual is someone who is romantically and/or sexually attracted to multiple, but not all, genders and gender identities.
In other words, spectrasexuality sits under the multisexual umbrella (meaning attraction to more than one gender) but differs from pansexuality or omnisexuality, where attraction encompasses all genders. Spectrasexuality involves attraction to a spectrum of genders, but that spectrum doesn't include every gender.
Here's a breakdown:
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Multisexual: This is the umbrella term for anyone attracted to more than one gender. Examples include bisexual, polysexual, omnisexual, and spectrasexual individuals.
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Pansexual: Attraction regardless of gender. Gender is not a determining factor in attraction.
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Omnisexual: Attraction to all genders, and gender is a determining factor. Omnisexual individuals may have preferences among genders.
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Spectrasexual: Attraction to multiple, but not all, genders. This is the key differentiator. A spectrasexual person might be attracted to women, men, and non-binary individuals, but not trans men, for example. The specific genders they are not attracted to can vary widely.
Key Differences Illustrated:
| Orientation | Attraction | Includes All Genders? | Gender a Factor? |
|---|---|---|---|
| Pansexual | All genders, regardless of gender | Yes | No |
| Omnisexual | All genders, but with preferences | Yes | Yes |
| Spectrasexual | Multiple genders, but not all genders | No | Potentially, but not always |
It's important to remember that sexual orientation is a personal and complex aspect of identity. Labels like "spectrasexual" can be helpful for some in understanding and expressing their attraction, but ultimately, individual experiences are unique.
