A girl might hide when she sees you because she wants to avoid an interaction with you. Here's a breakdown of potential reasons:
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Avoidance: As the reference states, the most straightforward reason is she simply doesn't want to see you. She may be uncomfortable, busy, or disinterested in engaging.
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Discomfort/Anxiety: She might feel anxious or self-conscious around you. This could stem from shyness, social anxiety, or a fear of saying or doing the wrong thing.
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Rejection: Hiding could be a non-verbal way of communicating disinterest or rejection. She may not want to confront you directly but is signaling that she doesn't want your attention.
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Previous Negative Experiences: If there's been a negative interaction in the past, she might be trying to avoid a repeat occurrence.
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She's with Someone Else: She might be with someone she doesn't want you to see her with (e.g., another boyfriend if she's in a relationship with someone else, a friend she doesn't want you to meet).
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Feeling Unprepared: She may feel like she doesn't look her best or isn't in the right frame of mind to interact.
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Playing Hard to Get (less likely): While less common, some people might hide as a way to create mystery or intrigue. However, this is usually accompanied by other signs of interest, which would likely be absent if she is genuinely hiding.
What to do if this happens:
The reference advises leaving her alone. This is generally sound advice. Respect her boundaries and give her space. Attempting to pursue her after she's clearly avoiding you is unlikely to improve the situation and could even be perceived as harassment.