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How Do You Drink Tea at a Tea Party?

Published in Tea Etiquette 2 mins read

Drink tea at a tea party by taking small, quiet sips after properly preparing your cup and observing tea party etiquette.

Here's a more detailed breakdown:

  • Preparation is Key:

    • Stirring: After adding milk, sugar, or lemon (if offered), gently stir your tea. Avoid clinking the spoon against the cup.
    • Spoon Placement: When you're done stirring, remove the spoon and place it on the saucer behind the teacup and to the right of the handle. Never leave the spoon in the teacup while drinking.
  • Drinking Etiquette:

    • Small Sips: Take small, quiet sips. Avoid slurping or making any unnecessary noise.
    • Holding the Cup: Hold the teacup by the handle with your thumb and forefinger. Your middle finger can rest gently beneath the cup for support. Avoid looping your fingers through the handle or raising your pinky.
    • Positioning: Bring the cup to your mouth, not your mouth to the cup. Keep your eyes down towards your cup while drinking.
    • Napkin Use: Gently dab your lips with your napkin before and after drinking to avoid leaving lipstick or tea stains on the cup.
  • General Considerations:

    • Conversation: Engage in polite and light conversation. Avoid controversial or overly personal topics.
    • Pace Yourself: Don't rush through your tea. Savor the experience and enjoy the company.
    • Avoid Sipping from the Spoon: Never, ever sip tea from the spoon. It's considered extremely bad form.

Drinking tea at a tea party is more than just quenching your thirst; it's about enjoying the ambiance, conversation, and observing proper etiquette. Following these simple guidelines will ensure you have a pleasant and polite experience.

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