Enjoying a cup of tea can be a refined and enjoyable experience. Proper tea drinking encompasses both the preparation and the act of drinking itself. Let's explore the etiquette and practicalities.
Etiquette and Proper Posture
According to etiquette experts, proper tea drinking begins with posture. Sit upright with good posture and a napkin on your lap. (Southern Living) Bring the cup to your lips; avoid leaning forward, slurping, or blowing on the tea. Gently place the cup back on its saucer between sips. Contrary to popular belief, keeping your pinky finger down is the proper way to hold your teacup.
Brewing and Serving
While etiquette focuses on the act of drinking, proper tea also begins with the brewing process. For a strong brew, use freshly boiled water and steep the tea bag according to package instructions. (Saatva) For milk and sugar, many sources suggest adding them after brewing, though there's some debate. Some prefer to add milk after brewing the tea to prevent bitterness, while others add it before depending on the type of tea and personal preference. (r/tea).
Casual vs. Formal Tea Drinking
The "proper" way to drink tea can vary depending on the context. A formal tea party necessitates the etiquette described above. However, casual tea drinking can be much more relaxed, such as the British approach: "Boiling water, teabag, mug. Milk and/or sugar to taste. Repeat every couple of hours." (r/AskUK)
Stirring Your Tea
When stirring, use a gentle, back-and-forth motion, starting at the 12 o'clock position. Avoid clinking the spoon against the cup. (Twinings) Never leave the spoon in the cup.
Additional Tips
- Use a teacup and saucer for a more formal experience.
- Choose a tea that you enjoy. There is a vast variety of teas available.
- Enjoy your tea in a peaceful environment.
