The person who sleeps with the bride the night before the wedding is a matter of personal choice and tradition, as there's no single "right" answer. It depends entirely on the bride's preference and the plans she has made for that evening.
Traditionally, it was considered bad luck for the bride and groom to see each other the night before the wedding, so they would sleep separately. This could mean the bride spent the night:
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With her bridesmaids: This is a popular option, allowing for a fun and supportive sleepover filled with laughter, memories, and pre-wedding pampering.
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With her mother or another close female relative: Spending quality time with a parent or another significant female figure can be a comforting and bonding experience before the big day.
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Alone: Some brides prefer the peace and quiet of their own company to relax and prepare mentally for the wedding.
However, modern couples are increasingly choosing to break with tradition. Some brides may choose to:
- Spend the night with the groom: They may prefer to share a last quiet night together as an engaged couple before embarking on their married life.
Ultimately, the choice is entirely up to the bride. There are no hard and fast rules. The most important thing is that she feels comfortable and relaxed, and that the arrangements help her feel prepared and excited for her wedding day.
